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MORE THAN JUST A WOMAN- By Apst. Monty Abraham New Glory Assembly


Bible Ref: Gen. 2:18 & 25; Eph. 5:3.

“All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right.” 2 Timothy 3:16.
Sometimes what is delaying our blessing is that we have not corrected ourselves on certain areas we are wrong. We refuse to admit we are wrong and embrace the truth which is the word of God.
As a wife, you are supposed to be more than just a woman to your husband. There are responsibilities and roles that you should assume and perform as a wife.

There are three major things you should know and do as a Wife. Which are:-

1). Be A Helper: When a purpose of a thing is not known abuse is inevitable. Every woman is created to be a helpmate. Gen. 2:18. One of the assignments you are created for is to be a fitting helper to your husband to enable him fulfill his Destiny. How successful you are as a wife will depend on how successful your husband has become.
Not all married women deserve to be called wives. As a wife, if your husband can not confide in you, if he cannot trust you in handling his income, you are not a wife you are just a woman. As a wife you are created also to assist him manage his income and help him to invest, and not to bankrupt him.

2). Let Your Weakness Be Your Strength: Eph. 5:3.
If you do not respect your husband, you are not respecting God, because it is God who said respect your husband. So if you disrespect your husband, you disrespect God. As a wife let submissiveness to your husband be your strength. Respect him. Know when you should discuss things with him. Not when he his angry that you want to talk to him, he might pour his aggression on you. You have to wait till when he is calm, then you can discuss things with him. When you know how to submit to your husband getting things from him will no longer be a problem. It will become so easy to get what you want from him.

3). Keep Improving On Yourself:
As a woman there are some Areas you need to keep Improving on. They are:-
(a). Improve On Your Earning Capacity: Most women, immediately they are married, they stop working. They stop doing their businesses. It shows you are a liability to your husband . As a wife you have to improve on yourself by doing something; if it is to attain a higher degree do it, or business, do something to be a veritable support in the lives of your husband and children. Peradventure, if something happens to your husband’s job, you should be his plan B, to assist him to sustain the family at that period of struggling.

(b). Improve On Your Look: Some women, once they are married, they look so tattered. They are so careless about their look. It’s easy to attract a man but it takes more effort to maintain that attraction. You should be looking more beautiful everyday for your husband. When you look good as a wife, especially in the presence of your husband, it gives him inner fulfilment that he did not make mistake in his choice. The beauty of a woman is also resident on her hair. Don’t allow your hair to be unkept, your nails to be dirty, your pubic area to be bushy and smelling. Keep your body clean for your husband. Any day your husband complains about your look, know that he loves you dearly. If he stops complaining about your look, and you know you are unkept, then know that he has another woman outside so he no longer cares. You have started losing your man. Improve on your look to keep your man.

(c). You Must Improve On Your Sex Life: Medical Officers said, for a healthy marriage, husband and wife should have sex at least three times in a week. The worst thing you can do is to deny your husband sex. Some of you are married for ten years and still don’t know your husband body chemistry, because you think you have done more than enough. By the time your husband meet another woman outside that knows his body chemistry, you will lose him. The Bible said they were both naked and were not ashamed. Gen. 2:25. Don’t deprive your husband of sex.
(d). Improve On Your Cooking Skills: Learn how to cook very well, and garnish it well to his taste. So that anytime he is out, he will always return home to eat, instead of eating out. Learn to cook what he likes the way he likes it.

As a wife, if you are wanting in these highlighted areas, then you are just like any other woman out there. And your man could be easily taken, because there is nothing special about you. But if you do these things, you become special. You are not just a woman, you are a wife to him. And it will be difficult for your man to be taken.

God bless you and your marriage.

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Apst. Monty Abraham
New Glory Assembly

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